Monday, January 26, 2009

I Needed Some Love Today


I feel like I'm such a complainer. I really wasn't going to post today, but the most amazing things kept happening. At least to me they were amazing.
Patch was really having a bad day today, which translates to me having a bad day. Everything turned into a melt down, or screaming or spitting. Ugh. You know I've had a bad day when my male neighbor/friend comes by to pick up his kids and he says I look "tired". Not helping!
I called my good friend Shalynn to see if I could pawn my problem on her and of course she was more than willing. She came by and picked up Patch in jammies and all. She is such a great friend.
I went to put dinner together and realized that all the preparation (I won't bore you with the details) was for not because I was short on sauce. I was making enchiladas.
I should also tell you I quit dt. coke a week ago, and after today I was really being tempted.
I ran to the store to get the sauce I needed to see they had Pepsi on sale. Not a good sign. My first thought was I should call Shauna and have her be my sponsor to get me through this. Then, what do I hear over my shoulder? Shauna. She was checking out as I got there. Too weird. I really think Heavenly Father was looking out for me and letting me know I had the strength to get past this crazy day.
On my way home I was on the phone w/ Shalynn for obvious reasons (Patch) I stopped to get the mail, then headed home. I walked in to see that someone had prepared and left food for dinner. Shalynn had stopped by while I was gone and dropped off dinner, making exactly what I was planning to make. Too weird. Did I mention she is a really good friend?!
I then looked through the mail and TWO great things were in there. Liz had sent Patch a birthday surprise, which anything from Liz makes me smile. AND my awesome sister Sally, had put a note in the mail just to say 'hope you're having a good day'. How did she know?
I really feel looked out for. I know I shouldn't be so dramatic about Patch. It really is hard to explain unless you see it first hand, all day, every day. I felt like things were getting better, but with my kids home it just feels like its the same.
I feel so blessed to have a Heavenly Father who loves me so much and sends me people who take care of me when I don't want to take care of myself. Thank you to all I truly count as friends. I am not great at correspondence or just calling, so I often worry that I'm not being a good friend to those I love. I'm sure if I spent half the time just making calls as I do worrying about you it would save loads of time and strengthen friendships.
I just have great friends!

6 comments:

SalGal said...

Love you, dude!

heather said...

Yay, for people that are in tune. I'm glad you ended up having a great day.

Karen said...

Awww. I'm telling ya, it's those little miracles that make life much more bearable. I'm so glad that since you moved away, and I can't be there for you like that, you have found some really great people who can get you through it.

Emily K. said...

Are you kidding??? You are there like that, you're one of those great friends I have!

pan x 8 said...

Don't you love how Heavenly Father takes care of us?? I think we have those days to bring us closer to our "friends"! Too many times I've been the recepient of friends following the Spirit.

Love you, glad you got through this day and tomorrow is a fresh start!

Unknown said...

You answer people's prayers all the time, so it's only fair you get some answered for yourself! You are an amazing person and I am always thinking of you! Here's to a great day with no diet pepsi!